Starting this month, keep an eye (or should that be ‘i’) out for FYiSPY.
Toxic people are (sadly) not a rarity in this day and age, and the FYiSPY is a new initiative designed to keep in mind key traits of a wide variety of toxic and enablement behaviour patterns.
Whilst it might be perhaps seem to be presented in a ‘game-like’ fashion, its inspiration harking back to that childhood favourite pastime during long car rides - I-SPY, the intention behind it is deadly serious. For in the hustle of day-to-day life it can be easy for our mind and our attention to be distracted and gloss over, or simply not acknowledge negative behaviours on display.
Yet as we have often discussed within the FYI/ASK resource, the first step to dealing wiht a problem is recognising the problem. Behavioural blindness is only going to allow toxic behaviour to propagate and fester. The idea of the FYiSPY is to aid in training your inner empath, your minds eye, to start to recognise these traits on an intuitive, almost subliminal manner.
Keep an eye open on the ‘News Feeder’ on the ‘Home’ page.